The golden rule is this : whatever you do to make your outside more delightful, be your real self inside. If you go about behaving in a way that isn’t true to the real you, then you run the worst danger in the whole love game; that of finding a man who doesn’t question anything.
He might even marry you while you’re busy being a siren or a waif, and then you’d be faced with the choice either of saying “ look, I’m not what you think “ or of keeping up the pretence for a lifetime, which could be very tiring.
“ But “, you may say, “ I’m so awful --- I know that --- that I cant just go around being my self. I have to try to be bit special; I have to make some sort of an effort “
Nonsense. If you’re less than perfect don’t worry about it. We all are.
He might even marry you while you’re busy being a siren or a waif, and then you’d be faced with the choice either of saying “ look, I’m not what you think “ or of keeping up the pretence for a lifetime, which could be very tiring.
“ But “, you may say, “ I’m so awful --- I know that --- that I cant just go around being my self. I have to try to be bit special; I have to make some sort of an effort “
Nonsense. If you’re less than perfect don’t worry about it. We all are.
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